Stress: Warning Signs
Caring for a
loved one is such demanding work that stress can become a major
factor in coping with the situation. The symptoms you may experience
are similar to the symptoms of depression.
some warning signs that stress is taking its toll:
angry or irritable and just want to deny the whole situation is
–You feel as if you don’t have the time or energy to “waste” on
pleasant activities, and you become more isolated.
–You find it hard to concentrate because you are constantly
thinking about your loved one’s needs and what you have to do.
–You feel more and more depressed.
–Even though you are exhausted, you have problems sleeping.
-You start to develop health problems of your own.
feel stress for any number of reasons:
multiple demands on your time and energy, but you feel as if you
should be doing more.
–Some tasks and responsibilities are in direct conflict with
others, and you’re worried that you can’t do it all.
–It seems that everyone has high expectations of you.
–You don’t have the knowledge you need of aging issues and of
your loved one’s illness, so sometimes you don’t know what to
–You feel you can’t meet the ever-increasing needs of your loved
–You have limited access to the support you need and limited
money to cover the costs of care.
–You feel “stuck” or “trapped” in the role of caregiving and
don’t know if you can do it for much longer.
–You’re embarrassed when you take your care-receiver to
appointments or out for dinner.
–You, your care-receivers and immediate family member don’t
agree on everything.
–You feel “put upon” because of lack of support.
–You feel as if your life’s been taken from you.
–There is a general lack of communication—with your loved one,
his or her doctor, your immediate family members.
–Your family and friends express negative attitudes about your
role as a caregiver.
–It is hard to watch a loved one’s gradual but progressive
–There are problems in other parts of your life (work, spouse,
children, prior commitments).
–You miss your own life, your friends, your privacy.
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